Dealing with the problem of impaired memory.

Have you ever experienced when you walk into a room and completely forgetting your purpose? Ran into someone at the store, but couldn’t remember his / her / their name. Age, distraction, or a stressful lifestyle often causes this kind of memory lapse.

This month’s topic: memory impairment after stroke. Caregiver impact and helpful advice.

Various parts of the brain control memory. The injury to my husband affected turning recent memories into long-term memories. He can remember long-term memories, but these memories are not always precise. This newsletter is for you so that you won’t feel alone. Your healthcare provider can describe the effect of your stroke on your memory.

Some of the caregiver challenges I have experienced.

• You might feel like a nag if you remind the stroke survivor too often. This leads to their frustration and, regrettably, anger towards us.

The next day, they may have no memory of your special life event.

• You might get messages—invitations, schedule changes, or last-minute appointment updates—or you might not.

• The caregiver is now in charge of everything in both lives.

Tips that I have used:

• Try out different ways of communicating. For example, my system is to use a wall calendar, mark it with a sticky note, and review it daily for pending tasks.

• Following a routine is essential. If you can, try to maintain consistency in your schedule and actions.

• Maintaining organization in your home and life. Keeping items organized and in their designated places increases a survivor’s independence.

• Remove yourself from the situation if you’re overwhelmed.

When we support each other, life can be easier.

My new book “Stroke and the Caregiver” is now available on Amazon.  Each chapter provides additional tips for the backup caregiver. 

Thank you for your time and welcome